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You are not required to hire an attorney, but legal matters can be complicated. Consider talking to an attorney to go over your options. See the Finding Legal Help page for information about free and low cost ways to get legal help.
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Talk to an attorney
The information on this page is not a substitute for legal advice. You are not required to hire an attorney, but legal matters can be complicated. Consider talking to an attorney to go over your options.
See our Finding Legal Help page for information about ways to get legal help. One way to talk to an attorney is to visit a free legal clinic. Clinics provide general legal information and give brief legal advice. You might also hire an attorney for just part of your case or to do one particular thing, rather than represent you for the whole case. Legal help is also available at discounted rates for people with modest incomes.
Parents that have children together but are not married to each other may ask the court for orders concerning their minor children, including paternity, child custody, child support and parent-time. This is done in a parentage case.
If there is a question about paternity, it is possible to ask the court for an order for genetic testing as part of the parentage case. See the Paternity web page for information about paternity-related issues.
The information on this page is general and addresses the most common procedures for obtaining a child custody order between unmarried parents. This page does not address situations where other family members are trying to get custody of a minor child. Parentage issues can be complicated so consider talking to an attorney for advice.
The parentage process
The parent starting the parentage case is the petitioner. The other parent is the respondent.
Petitioner completes the documents
The petitioner may use OCAP the Online Court Assistance Program to prepare the petition and other documents to file for parentage. Once in OCAP, choose the option called Custody, Support, or Paternity.
Petitioner files the documents
The petitioner must file for parentage with the appropriate district court. For information about how to file documents, see the Filing Procedures web page.
The petitioner must pay a filing fee when they file the papers with the court. If they cannot afford the fees they can ask to waive them. The OCAP custody program includes an option to ask to waive the fees. For more information, see our page on Fee Waiver.
Where to file
Generally speaking, if the minor children have lived in Utah for six months prior to filing the case, the case is filed with the district court of the county where the children reside.
If the petitioner uses OCAP, they will be asked a series of questions about where they, the respondent, and the children live. That may help determine where the case should be filed. The following flowcharts can also help you determine whether Utah has jurisdiction.
- Jurisdiction to Enter an Initial Custody or Parent-time Order flow chart
- Support Modification Jurisdiction Chart
See: Utah Code 78B-15-101 et seq., Utah Uniform Parentage Act
Jurisdiction can be complicated. If there are questions about which court in Utah, or which state or country might have jurisdiction, talk to a lawyer.
Petitioner has documents served
The petitioner must have the respondent served with the petition for parentage, summons and other documents no later than 120 days after the petition is filed. The petitioner must provide proof of service once it has been completed. For more information about service, see the Serving Papers web page.
Respondent files an answer
The respondent has 21 days (if they were served in Utah) or 30 days (if they were served outside of Utah) to respond to ("answer") the parentage petition if the respondent disagrees with anything stated in the petition. The respondent may use OCAP, the Online Court Assistance Program, to prepare an answer. For more information, see the Answering a Complaint or Petition web page. If the respondent does not think Utah has jurisdiction, they may need to file a Motion to Dismiss instead of an Answer.
If an answer is filed, then each party must provide the other their Financial Declaration. For more information, see our page on Financial Declarations.
If an answer is filed, the court may order the parties to try to come to an agreement in mediation. For more information, see our pages on Mediation.
If the respondent agrees with everything in the Petition, they can sign and file an Acceptance of Service, Appearance, Consent and Waiver form found in the OCAP custody program, the petitioner can ask for a decree that matches what was asked for in the petition. The decree is printed as part of the OCAP paperwork.
If the parties are able to come to an agreement at any time after the Petition is filed, they can use the custody program in OCAP to prepare a stipulation and final documents.
If respondent does not file an answer
If the respondent has been properly served and does not file an answer within the time specified in the Summons, the petitioner may ask for a default judgment. This means the petitioner gets what they have asked for, and the respondent won't have a chance to tell their side of the story. For more information and forms, see our page on Default Judgments. The default judgment forms are also available through the OCAP custody program.
Child custody, child support and parent time
The parentage case addresses the issues of paternity, child custody, child support and parent-time. For more information, please see these pages:
- Child Custody and Parent Time - information about the types of custody, parenting plans and parent relocation.
- Child Support - information about calculating child support, medical expenses, tax exemptions and collecting support. OCAP will calculate child support based on the child custody arrangement and the income of each parent.
- Parenting Plans - information about plans for parents to work together to raise their children.
Either party can as for a temporary order if needed during the parentage case. A temporary order can include child support, custody, and parent time. For more information and forms, see the How to get a Temporary Order web page.
A party can request that the minor's legal name be changed in the petition or counter petition. The request must include the child's current full legal name and the proposed new full legal name. If parties can't agree about what the child's name should be, the judge will make a decision based on what is in the child's best interest.
The parentage decree can also include adding or removing a parent's name from the minor child's birth certificate. For example, if man is determined to be the biological and legal father in the parentage case, the decree can order that his name be added to the child's birth certificate.
Going to trial
The following procedures apply only if the parties are not able to reach an agreement in the parentage case.
Child custody evaluation
The parties may request a custody evaluation by a professional evaluator. The judge can order a custody evaluation even without a motion from a party. A custody evaluation may be expensive and the cost is often split between the parties. For more information, see Rule 4-903 and the web pages on Custody Evaluation and Child Custody and Parent Time.
Before scheduling a trial, the court will require the parties to attend a pretrial conference to make a final attempt to settle the case and, if necessary, to order which issues will go to trial. The pretrial conference may be with a court commissioner in the counties that have a court commissioner.
After a pretrial conference, the court may schedule a trial to finalize the case. If the parties agree, they can ask for an informal trial. For more information, see the Informal Trial of Support, Custody and Parent-Time web page. Preparing for and going to trial can be complicated. Consider talking to an attorney to help you. For more information, see the Going to Court web page.
After the parentage decree
Changes to Birth Certificate
If the parentage decree or order says a Utah birth certificate should be changed a party can provide a certified copy of the order to Utah Vital Records and Statistics and complete their process for getting an Amended Birth Certificate. More information, see Vital Records website at https://vitalrecords.utah.gov/certificates/amend-a-vital-record.
Collecting Child Support
A party that has a parentage decree or court order that requires the other party to pay child support can work with the Office of Recovery Services (ORS) for help collecting child support. More information is available on the ORS Child Support Services web page.
A party who disagrees with the judge's decisions and thinks the judge has made a legal mistake may file an appeal, but must do so within 30 days after final entry of the parentage decree. For more information, see our page on Appeals.
Setting aside a judgment
A judgment, including a default judgment, can be set aside if there are good enough reasons for doing so. If a judgment is set aside, the case is reopened. A military service member has special rights to set aside a default judgment. To help prepare a motion to set aside a default or other judgment, see the Motion to Set Aside Judgment web page. For more information about default judgments, see the Default Judgments web page.
Correcting a clerical error in the decree
If there is a clerical error in the decree, either party may ask the court to enter a corrected decree. A clerical error may be, for example, if the monthly child support payment amount is supposed to be $450 but is mistakenly listed as $4500. For information on a motion to correct a clerical error in the decree, see the Motions web page.
Modifying a parentage decree
If there has been a substantial change in circumstances since the parentage decree was signed by the judge, either party can ask the court to modify the decree. For more information, see the web pages on:
A party wanting to modify a parentage decree to question the parental status of a man that has been declared to be the legal father should seek legal advice. That process is beyond the scope of this web page.
Enforcing a parentage decree
A party may ask the court to enforce a temporary order or parentage decree if the other party is not obeying it. For more information, see the Motion to Enforce Domestic Order (Order to Show Cause)web page.
Administrative child support order from the Office of Recovery Services (ORS)
It is possible to ask the Office of Recovery Services (ORS) to establish child support orders administratively. While the ORS order is not an order of the court, it has the same effect as a court order. An administrative order from ORS does not address child custody or parent time. Those issues must go through the court.
More information about the administrative order process is available on the ORS Child Support Services web page.
Use OCAP, the Online Court Assistance Program. Choose the Custody, Support, or Paternity - Petitioner option.
Use OCAP, the Online Court Assistance Program. Choose the Custody, Support, or Paternity - Answer - Respondent option.
Other web pages with forms
- Answering a Complaint or Petition
- Child Custody and Parent Time
- Child Support
- Default Judgments
- Fee Waiver
- Financial Declaration
- Informal Trial of Support, Custody and Parent-Time
- Modifying Child Custody
- Modifying Child Support
- Modifying Parent Time
- Motion to Enforce Domestic Order (Order to Show Cause)
- Motion to Set Aside Judgment
- Parenting Plans
- Temporary Order
These forms are produced as part of OCAP, but are provided here as a courtesy.
- Acceptance of Service, Appearance, Consent, and Waiver -
- To be used by the respondent if they agree completely with everything requested in the parentage petition. The document must be signed in front of a notary or court clerk and filed with the court.
- Affidavit of Other Party's Earnings -
- Used by either the petitioner or respondent to tell the court what they know about how much money the other party earns. The document must be signed in front of a notary or court clerk and filed with the court.
- Respondent's Declaration of Military Service -
- Used by the respondent to tell the court that they are not on active duty military service.
Third District Forms
These forms are for parentage cases in the Third Judicial District only (Salt Lake, Summit and Tooele counties)
- Child Custody and Parent-time
- Child Support
- Fee Waiver
- Filing Procedures
- Finding Legal Help
- Free Legal Clinics
- Going to Court
- Informal Trial of Support, Custody and Parent-Time
- Parenting Plans
- Rules of Civil Procedure
- Serving Papers
- Temporary Order
- Utah Uniform Parentage Act
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