If yes, consider divorce
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Custody cases are usually for people who:
In a custody case you can get orders about the kids. This includes:
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If yes, consider divorce
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If yes, read about guardianship of a minor
If no, a custody case could be the right option. Scroll down for details on how to proceed.
If you aren't sure a custody case is right for you, contact the Self-Help Center or get legal help
See the Roadmap for custody cases for an overall picture of the process and timelines.
The parent starting the custody case is the petitioner. The other parent is the respondent.
When a custody case is filed, the court will automatically issue an order called a Domestic Relations Injunction. The injunction is a court order requiring parties not to harass one another, change insurance or beneficiary coverage, transfer property or make non-routine travel with the parties' minor children while the case is pending. There are additional prohibitions in the injunction. Be sure to read it carefully.
The injunction is effective for the petitioner when the case is filed. The injunction is effective for the respondent when the petitioner gets a copy to them. See the Domestic Relations Injunction web page for more information.
The petitioner may use MyPaperwork to prepare the petition and other documents to file for custody. Once in MyPaperwork, follow the instructions (the interview might be called "Parentage" - that is the right one).
The petitioner must file for custody with the appropriate district court. For information about how to file documents, see the Filing Procedures web page.
The petitioner must pay a filing fee when they file the papers with the court. If they cannot afford the fees they can ask to waive them. MyPaperwork includes an option to ask to waive the fees. For more information, see our page on Fee Waiver.
Generally speaking, if the minor children have lived in Utah for six months prior to filing the case, the case is filed with the district court of the county where the children reside.
If the petitioner uses MyPaperwork, they will be asked a series of questions about where they, the respondent, and the children live. That may help determine where the case should be filed. The following flowcharts can also help you determine whether Utah has jurisdiction.
See: Utah Code 78B-15-101 et seq., Utah Uniform Parentage Act
Jurisdiction can be complicated. If there are questions about which court in Utah, or which state or country might have jurisdiction, talk to a lawyer.
The petitioner must have the respondent served with the petition for custody, summons and other documents no later than 120 days after the petition is filed. The petitioner must provide proof of service once it has been completed. For more information about service, see the Serving Papers web page.
The respondent has 21 days (if they were served in Utah) or 30 days (if they were served outside of Utah) to respond to ("answer") the custody petition if the respondent disagrees with anything stated in the petition. The respondent may use MyPaperwork to prepare an answer. For more information, see the Answering a Complaint or Petition web page. If the respondent does not think Utah has jurisdiction, they may need to file a Motion to Dismiss instead of an Answer.
If an answer is filed, both parties must provide initial disclosures to each other, including a Financial Declaration. For more information and forms, see the Initial Disclosures web page and the Financial Declarations web page.
If an answer is filed, the court may order the parties to try to come to an agreement in mediation. For more information, see our pages on Mediation.
After the respondent files an answer, the court will schedule a case management conference. This is a hearing with the court to set dates for your case.
The court might schedule dates for:
The court could schedule other issues. It depends on how complicated your case is.
Utah Rule of Civil Procedure 100A
The respondent may also stipulate—or agree—in writing to the petition and the custody or custody decree. If the parties can agree to the terms of the decree, they can use MyPaperwork to prepare the documents. MyPaperwork can create a stipulation at the start of the case, or at any point in the case if the parties come to an agreement. Follow the directions in the MyPaperwork interview.
If the respondent has been properly served and does not file an answer within the time specified in the Summons, the petitioner may ask for a default judgment. This means the petitioner gets what they have asked for, and the respondent won't have a chance to tell their side of the story. For more information and forms, see our page on Default Judgments. The default judgment forms are also available through MyPaperwork.
For cases started on May 1, 2024 or after, both parents must take a required parenting class. Learn about the class on our Required Classes for Parents page.
If your case started before May 1, 2024, the judge may order the parents to take the class in some situations.
The custody case addresses the issues of paternity, child custody, child support and parent-time. For more information, please see these pages:
Either party can ask for a temporary order if needed during the custody case. A temporary order can include child support, custody, and parent time. For more information and forms, see the How to get a Temporary Order web page.
A party can request that the minor's legal name be changed in the petition or counter petition. The request must include the child's current full legal name and the proposed new full legal name. If parties can't agree about what the child's name should be, the judge will make a decision based on what is in the child's best interest.
The custody decree can also include adding or removing a parent's name from the minor child's birth certificate. For example, if man is determined to be the biological and legal father in the custody case, the decree can order that his name be added to the child's birth certificate.
More information required by the Utah Office of Vital Records and Statistics to make changes to birth certificates is found on that agency's website.
The following procedures apply only if the parties are not able to reach an agreement in the custody case.
The parties may request a custody evaluation by a professional evaluator. The judge can order a custody evaluation even without a motion from a party. A custody evaluation may be expensive and the cost is often split between the parties. For more information, see Rule 4-903 and the web pages on Custody Evaluation and Child Custody and Parent Time.
See the Getting Ready for Trial web page for information about going to trial.
If the parentage decree or order says a Utah birth certificate should be changed a party can provide a certified copy of the order to Utah Vital Records and Statistics and complete their process for getting an Amended Birth Certificate. More information, see Vital Records website at https://vitalrecords.utah.gov/certificates/amend-a-vital-record.
A party that has a parentage decree or court order that requires the other party to pay child support can work with the Office of Recovery Services (ORS) for help collecting child support. More information is available on the ORS Child Support Services web page.
A party who disagrees with the judge's decisions and thinks the judge has made a legal mistake may file an appeal, but must do so within 30 days after final entry of the parentage decree. For more information, see our page on Appeals.
A judgment, including a default judgment, can be set aside if there are good enough reasons for doing so. If a judgment is set aside, the case is reopened. A military service member has special rights to set aside a default judgment. To help prepare a motion to set aside a default or other judgment, see the Motion to Set Aside Judgment web page. For more information about default judgments, see the Default Judgments web page.
If there is a clerical error in the decree, either party may ask the court to enter a corrected decree. A clerical error may be, for example, if the monthly child support payment amount is supposed to be $450 but is mistakenly listed as $4500. For information on a motion to correct a clerical error in the decree, see the Motions web page.
If there has been a substantial change in circumstances since the parentage decree was signed by the judge, either party can ask the court to modify the decree. For more information, see the web pages on:
A party wanting to modify a parentage decree to question the parental status of a man that has been declared to be the legal father should seek legal advice. That process is beyond the scope of this web page.
A party may ask the court to enforce a temporary order or parentage decree if the other party is not obeying it. For more information, see the Motion to Enforce Order.
It is possible to ask the Office of Recovery Services (ORS) to establish child support orders administratively. While the ORS order is not an order of the court, it has the same effect as a court order. An administrative order from ORS does not address child custody or parent time. Those issues must go through the court.
More information about the administrative order process is available on the ORS Child Support Services web page.